Making Excuses Doesn't Equal Growth
Disclaimer: This post includes discussion of abuse and trauma, which can be distressing. If you are experiencing abuse or need support, please reach out to trained professionals. In the US, you can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or the US National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 . If you are outside the US, local crisis lines or mental health services are available. Your safety matters. Click here to download the Free SMART Goal Worksheet. Making excuses can feel protective, but over time they quietly block personal growth, goal setting, and meaningful progress. In this post, I explore how excuses are often rooted in habits, trauma responses, and poor goal planning, and how awareness is the first step toward change. By understanding the psychology of habits, motivation, and stress, we can learn why we avoid our goals and how to create actionable, realistic plans that support growth instead of fear...